Inspiration in brief

 Inspiration

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Inspiration is a feeling of enthusiasm you get from someone or something, that gives you new and creative ideas. Difference of opinions arise in everyday inter actions, as the manners, Culture and perspectives we all carry differ. At such times if we are egoistic to prove our point and criticise the other person, the discussion turns into an argument. But if we choose to withdraw emotionally, remain stable and then speak, the dialogue moves towards harmony despite our differences. What is your threshold for calm interactions during a verbal exchange, when you disagree with someone? 

Does your temperament flare and you argue to prove your point? Also, do lengthy arguments feel worthwhile? Being heard is important. But healthy discussions need us to pause, process the situation, create a response and then speak. We also need to listen to their opinion without internally concluding they are wrong. There's more power in being humble than to argue, Humility keeps our emotions in check. Otherwise it becomes a power game of us being right rather than our opinion being right. Arguments arise out of ego and block productive communication. Throughout the day, living with people, working with them or coming into interaction even with strangers, take care of your mind. If there are difference of opinions put across your opinion with stability. Detach from your perspective and see theirs. If you are still not comfortable with their opinion, accept your differences with dignity for yourself and respect for them. Understand that they speak as per their culture, manners and their perspectives, you speak as per yours. Neither of you are wrong, both are different. Use this knowledge to with draw internally from the unhealthy energies.

As emotional intelligence is the ability to manage your emotions in a positive way